Go to the self-help section of any bookstore or scroll through the documentary section of Netflix, and there are dozens of titles linked to happiness. There are lots of different ideas on what the path to happiness is, but Lake Effect essayist Cari Taylor-Carlson is only an expert on her own efforts: Last October, my granddaughter Lily “tagged” me with the latest teenybopper Instagram fad. Because I was tagged, my task was to post a daily photo with the hashtag 100 Happy Days for that number of consecutive days. It took me back to my student days at UW-Madison when my friends and I used to sneak bottles of Mogan David wine into the dorm and get mildly buzzed as we attempted to decode the ultimate meaning of our young lives. During those wine-fueled nights, I discovered hedonism, defined according to Webster.com, as the belief that pleasure or happiness is the most important goal of our lives. At twenty, I glommed on to that idea and held it tight. My friends and I understood pleasure,
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